Friday, October 2, 2009

kaututang dila


Usapang girl friend ito! :) Bente-kwatro años na me pero wala pa me gf. wahahaah!!

Let me share this thought that i have in mind right now.


Turn off
...recently lang e naturn off ako sa isang girl na gustong gusto ko. Eh akalain mo ba namang magpasexy. hoo.. i-display ba naman ang katawan na sexy sa world wide web. Aba'y 'wag naman ganun. It broke my heart right then and there! Nakks! Wahahaha!! I believe it is not being judgemental. It is a preference that speaks of how I want my girl to be. I have to let go of her in my mind. . hahaha hindi naman kami kasi. Pero di ko na siya ilalagay sa list ko. May list? Joke lang!

Heto pa, ang dumi ng kuko sa paa. Ah lagot! Iba na 'to. :) Hindi siya ha. . kahit sinong girl basta kapag madumi yung paa, napapasigaw na ko!

Sabi ni Ate Dorie at Ate Heidi, "Conservative ka nuh?" Will it make me less of a man to be of conservative type? I don't think so. I might just run out of time wating for "her" but definitely it is ok... Ayun!!

Ok, hinay-hinay. This is not about making an on-line announcement that I am DESPERATELY in need of a girl. I don't see myself marrying a girl I have met on-line thru chats, fb, and fs or even thru dating games. I don't and won't join dating games, in the first place. Naku hindi po! Maski sa panaginip, di ako nakipag-eyeball o nakipag-date sa girl na di ko pa kilala ng husto! Nyaha! May masama ba sa mga ganito? WALA NAMAN. Hindi lang kasi ako ganun. Malinaw sa akin na matagal ko nang kaibigan ang mapapangasawa ko... haay!

Gusto ko MAGANDA, kasi nga pogi ako!!! Wahahahah!! There is nothing wrong with the desire to have a breath-taking wife. Tama? (And all the boys out there say "Amen!".) But there is a big BUT after that statement. Just make sure it will not be the sole factor that would dictate you who to love. Know from God who will be the perfect one for you. I choose not to compromise. To have the same FAITH is the most important thing. the both of us should be in love with the Master. If God will give me a girl who will not meet my taste (physically) but is deeply in love with Him, I'm gonna accept His will and have Him change my heart. :) Talk about surrender. This will be hard to do but definitely the wisest choice to make, I suppose.

I am planning to get married next year when I turn 25. And I wanna have my first-born when I turn 28. Cool. Ito ang mga plano ko. :) Maganda ang plano ko. Pero PERPEKTO ANG PLANO NG BOSS KO. Doon na lang ako sa plano Niya.

Erickson termed this psycho-social struggle among young adults as Intimacy versus Isolation. It refers to the conflict wherein if a young adult learns to cope up with the demands of life pertaining to his social developmental stage, he looks for a lifetime partner and settles down. If he won't be able to overcome this specific dilemma, there is withdrawal from the crowd, especially people of the opposite sex due to inferiority.

At ayoko matalo sa "battle" na yun. Hehehe. . I'm more than a conqueror. Through Christ, I've met the highest kind of need all humans have and that is self-actualization (according to A. Maslow) (I'll tell you more about self-actualization some other time, ok). Secondly, God provides as they say. Walang dapat ikatakot.

Masaya naman ang maging single. Masaya naman talaga. Pero hindi dapat abusuhin. :) Ahaaa!

Sino nagsabing lahat ng nasusulat dito ay seryoso?? Hindi naman. Pero lahat totoo. Lahat. :)

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